Is It Okay To Have A Favourite?

Very pleased with herself.

Very pleased with herself.

Sometimes in life it feels like parenthood is portrayed as one big party, as if from the moment of conception right through until your little darling has their own babies and beyond is just one big ball of excellent. Other sources will have you believe that bringing up a child is probably the worst thing you’ll ever choose to do and, if it doesn’t drive you to an expensive drinking habit, it will leave your life AND your hoo-ha in tatters.

In reality, like most things, it’s a little bit in between isn’t it? Some days you wish no matter how you much you love your little one that you could perhaps just have a poo in peace (sorry) or eat the entirety of your own snack that you bought just for you to eat because it’s your favourite (yeah, so not gonna happen. Fact: toddlers actually have special powers which enable them to be able to hear a wrapper opening no matter how quietly you do it in the other room. The powers increase in proportion with how much you were looking forward to eating the snack). Equally there are some days when you put them to bed and watch them sleeping and think about how amazing and cute they are and what an excellent thing you did by bringing this little snoozing angel into the world.

I think it’s also fair to say that everyone has their favourite bit of parenting. Some people relish the early days when you’re knee deep in sick, milk and more sick. Some people are just excellent at parenting moody teenagers. I’ve only been a parent for 14 months (I just googled out on interest and Alexandra will be 446 days old when this post goes live) so I’ll probably have to stick at it for a little while longer until I can evaluate where my strong points have been. But so far I have to say Alex was excellent at around six months old. I mean, I liked her before but around that age it just felt extra nice to be around her! I then quite liked the phase around ten/11 months where it seemed like she was learning new things every day.

14 months hasn’t been my favourite so far simply because she’s so GRUMPY! Tantrums galore and tiredness abundant, it’s been a long month!

Harriet and Alexandra x

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