A Wee Weaning Update

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About a month back, I posted about our first few weeks of weaning (post is here if you missed it). I figured now would be as good a time as any to update on how Alexandra’s getting on with food. I won’t update every month as that could get incredibly boring but may do something when she’s completely off milk and on to solely solids. I’m going to put this into sections, more for my own peace of mind that I’ve covered everything I want to cover.

Milk:

When we began weaning, Alex was on five bottles a day of 210ml water plus formula (this equates to about 8oz in total once it’s made up). She dropped down to four bottles fairly quickly when she was eating only a small amount a couple of times a day, we had a bit of an odd blip for a couple of days where she went back to five but then went back down to four.

After a while I worried I was never going to get her down to three bottles but we’ve managed that about a week or so ago and she seems very content now just having one when she wakes, one during the day (she quite regularly splits this one into two sittings) and one before bed.

I think I’m going to give her about a month on this routine before actively trying to reduce the daytime bottle (obviously if she drops it herself before then I’ll go along with that). Then the next step will be stopping her morning bottle, which I think would be fairly achievable just by moving breakfast forward a bit. Then the idea is by the time she’s around one she’ll stop having formula, although she might still have regular milk as a bedtime drink if she seems to still want it.

Schedule:

Alex has her breakfast around 10am, if I give it any earlier she’s not really hungry enough after her morning bottle. Lunchtime is quite late really, around 1.30/2pm but can be later if she’s dozed off for a nap. Then dinner is about 6pm.

What does she eat?

What doesn’t she eat? Alexandra hasn’t refused anything we’ve given her. Current favourites are Weetabix, yoghurt and strangely enough she’s quite partial to a bit of spicy food. She’s obviously taking after her daddy with that one!

All in all, I’m feeling much more relaxed about the whole thing than I was for the first few weeks. It’s becoming much easier now, especially as she can pretty much eat what we eat (blended a little, although she eats much chunkier things now) and because she’s not fussy in the least. Just keep shovelling it in! (That’s where she takes after me, clearly)

Harriet and Alexandra x

Weaning

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Here it is, finally a post about weaning. I’ve been putting this post off now for quite a number of weeks. I can’t really rationalise why, apart from the fact at the start I didn’t massively enjoy the process of weaning and I still don’t feel 100 per cent confident about what I’m doing with it all. But then I figure I’m in no way holding this blog up as a place to come for professional advice, I just tell anyone who cares to read a little bit about my baby and how life’s going for the pair of us. So I’m taking the plunge and at least starting this post. No doubt I’ll have more to talk about as the months go on and Alexandra starts having a more exciting diet.

Beforehand (as in during pregnancy and the first few months of Alex’s life), I’d always said I’d probably try a combination of baby-led and traditional weaning. For the non-weaners, baby-led is essentially giving the child finger food for them to feed themselves with rather than spooning purees into their mouths. When the time came to wean at six months (ended up being a week before due to various reasons, not long after I published this post which I’d actually written weeks before so it probably looked as if I’d done a massive U-turn!) we initially started giving her purely foods she was feeding herself. I say feeding herself, pretty much none of it ended up being chewed and even less actually swallowed. People around me then began talking about the importance of getting a variety of flavours into them before around the eight-month mark when they can become fussy. So we decided the introduction of purees couldn’t be a bad thing and that we could always go back to solely baby-led if traditional weaning wasn’t working.

As it was, she took to purees like the proverbial duck to water and, although she does have finger foods to try herself, we now spoon feed her something three times a day. She’s on a variety of foods now: sometimes she has what we’ve had for dinner but blended down, sometimes she has something specially made for her. Our steamer and the blender we bought ages ago in readiness for weaning have been excellent as it takes less than ten minutes to get something prepared for Alex, or occasionally I have a mass blend and then freeze some stuff up ready for future use.

So far we haven’t used any pouches of shop-bought baby food, not being a snob about it but thankfully I’m managing to find time in the day to make our own. From what I’ve heard, Ella’s Kitchen are best as they don’t add any unnecessary junk into their food, but when I had a look in one shop they were £1 each! Which seems really steep when I can get quite a few meals from £1 worth of veg, or by simply taking a bit out of what I’m cooking for us. Despite not being a keen cook (I’m one of those people who can throw together a basic meal but I cook to eat rather than enjoying the process, Dylan is definitely head chef in our house when it comes to anything fancy!), I’m actually really enjoying putting meals together for her and seeing which flavours she enjoys. She hasn’t refused anything at all which is fabulous, for some reason she absolutely loves Weetabix! The process of eating it is always accompanied by ‘mmm’ and squealing if I don’t get the next mouthful to her quick enough.

At first I was very worried about weaning, whether I was doing the right thing, whether she should be spoon fed or baby led etc. There just seemed to be all sorts of things to worry about after we’d got into a nice little routine with our days and knew where we were with bottles. I knew I had to be positive about the experience otherwise Alexandra would pick up on the weird vibes, but finally weeks in I’m not really worrying too much any more. She got weighed recently and is actually now nearer the 75th centile than the 50th so she’s piling the weight on. It’s stopped feeling like such a faff now and it’s just a normal part of our day to feed her as well as her having her bottles. I could probably still do without the dreaded ‘weaning poos’ though!

Harriet and Alexandra x