I’ve been a mom for eight months now and while I’d never claim to be an expert, I wanted to share my thoughts about motherhood and to share some of the thoughts I have at this time, like a snapshot of my mind to look back on in future.
Motherhood is… looking at someone with snot coming out of their nose, dribble on their chin and breakfast mushed into their hair and thinking they’re the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen.
Motherhood is… worry. Constant worry.
Motherhood is…knowing exactly which stairs creak and avoiding them after putting baby to bed.
Motherhood is… convincing yourself tonight will be different and you’ll totally get loads done in the hours between baby’s bedtime and yours.
Motherhood is… feigning excitement about courgettes.
Motherhood is… using every single pillow in the house to make a safe fortress to stop bumped heads.
Motherhood is… veering wildly between being really excited about the next stages and being gutted they’re not a newborn anymore.
Motherhood is… having no barriers and no dignity.
Motherhood is… going to sleep each night with the jumparoo music playing over and over in your mind.
Motherhood is… the toughest and the best thing you’ve ever done.
Harriet and Alexandra xxx